Tonight was the monthly support group for Breast Cancer survivors which Ruth Mary hosts. I tried rather unsuccessfully to leave work early and so arrived about a half hour late. One of the nurses from the Comprehensive Breast Center was speaking about a new method for breast self-examination. I must admit it seemed so complicated that I felt a little intimidated by the information. However, since the tumor I had was first detected through self-examination, not mammography, I was glad to have it.
About a dozen women were in attendance who shared rather openly about their experiences with breast cancer, their doctors, testing, etc. Because it was my first time, I just listened, thinking it would be best to get a feel for the group’s dynamics before opening my mouth. They seem to be a group of sincere and open-hearted women. Both nurses who attended were also kind and friendly. I happened to mention to several ladies afterward that tomorrow was the one year anniversary of my operation. I was surprised at their response. Each woman seemed genuinely excited and encouraged me to celebrate by doing something for myself like going out to dinner or getting a massage or pedicure. I had briefly entertained the thought of going out to dinner, but had nixed the idea. It seemed frivolous after the celebration dinner I hosted a month ago. However, after speaking with them, I changed my mind and again made plans to do so.
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